Life of Love:Rough
There are people out there who thinks love is easy to come by or after being in a relationship, everything is fine and well. And I'm annoyed with those people---you can't expect there will be a happy ending to everytime you get into a relationship! There are things called "conflicts", "divorce", "breakups", and "arguments". Everything is not fine and dandy---people have to put effort into these relationships, instead of wishing that everything will go well with you!*~*~*
Me and my boyfriend, for example, need to make sure that time and distance doesn't seperate us emotionally. Of course it is nice to have a boyfriend, but there are times where you end up not spending that much time with him/her. For one thing, they have to work---their lives do not consist only you! They have friends, family, jobs, and personal space. Any good lover should know that they should respect that because your special someone is also a person too. It's not like you have to be happy about not being with that person---most of the time, I feel so lonely without my boyfriend. But it's not like he's enjoying it too....I mean, he must somewhere deep in his heart missed you too. Well for my boyfriend---it's more like he KNOWS that we will spend time with each other so he doesn't miss anything at all. It's a matter of time until that day comes.
Year of the Pig: 2007
A lot of things have been happening to me, Lisa, and my friends (who are born under the year of the snake).
Here are some things that happened to me this year:
*I was caught up in a drama with a certain someone who was overly dramatic with all the rumors and things she hears. She yelled at me (with a help of a friend whom I've never met) and called me a b**** . She accused me of "talking s***" about her---well, to be quitely honest, I have a life of my own and I don't spend time talking bad about someone! Besides, what do I get from this?? I don't know her well, but she certainly doesn't know me well either! She just has an impaired comprehension problem.
*I tripped on the way to Momo Con (a small anime convention) and caused 4 scrapes and bruises (2 on each leg).
*my computer broke--but I am able to get it working only slowly.
*I talked to this girl online recently and she hates Valentine ((period)). I got mad at her because she is completely unreasonable! She complained that she didn't get anything on Valentine's Day (from her friends or guys)), yet she doesn't believe she will have love. And she keeps nagging how anti-social she is! I was lecturing to her that if her life is that bad, then it will stay that way for the way she thinks! She can't find a boyfriend if she doesn't talk to anyone!! Is it everyone's fault that she won't talk to people?!! Plus, the day is for people to reveal crushes and love---she doesn't have to get something ((what is she?? A child who wanted presents on Christmas Day?!!))
*Tetsu, my sister's ex and friend, is being a butt about everything. He complained that he got Shinji from Eva. test. He said that Shinji was a cry baby. You know what I think?? It fits him perfectly---during the time he wanted to breakup, he has been acting like a stubborn child and locked himself in and not talk to anyone! He complained that he was sick and doesn't want to tell anyone; dummy, everyone gets sick--he is no different! He always whine that he doesn't have any friends and gets beaten up at school (even though he knows karate). He doesn't need to fight his bullies, but he can get some more friends and be in a group of people! Idiot! If he wants friends, then be one!! Don't act so freakin' helpless when you can do something about it! I just think he is just a big baby who can't get a grip on life.